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If it’s not a fuck yes, it’s a no.

Direct, clarity-focused dating coaching for high-functioning professionals who are done with maybes.

Apply to work with me
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    You’re thoughtful, emotionally intelligent, and capable — and somehow dating still feels harder than it should.


    I help high-functioning professionals stop over-giving in dating and start choosing relationships that are mutual, grounded, and clear.

What you Get here

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    Clarity

    No decoding. No limbo. We work with real data.

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    Strategy

    Messaging, pacing, boundaries, decision points.

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    Accountability

    Warm support + direct feedback when you drift.

The Fuck-Yes Filter™

We don’t chase clarity. We respond to it.

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Dating shouldn’t require detective work.

Dating shouldn’t require detective work. A fuck yes shows up as clear interest, consistent effort, aligned values, and forward movement.

If you’re confused, stalled, rationalizing, or waiting — that’s data.

This is for you if…

  • You’re successful in your work life but dating feels weirdly chaotic

  • You keep ending up in “almost” relationships

  • You give people too much benefit of the doubt (and it costs you)

  • You’re tired of mixed signals, slow fades, and inconsistency

  • You want to date with standards without becoming guarded

You don’t need more options. You need better discernment.

Our Services

Dating Reset Intensive

Best for: burned-out daters who want a clear plan
Includes:

  • 2 deep-dive coaching sessions

  • Dating pattern audit + blind spots

  • Profile/app strategy review OR dating plan (your choice)

  • Written “next steps” summary

The Steady Match Program (8 Weeks)

Best for: professionals actively dating who want consistency + clarity
Includes:

  • Weekly 1:1 coaching

  • Decision tools for early dating

  • Boundaries + pacing support

  • Limited between-session support (defined hours)

Your Questions, Answered

  • No. This is non-clinical dating coaching focused on decision-making, communication, and relationship strategy.

  • High-functioning professionals — especially helpers (medical, therapeutic, academic, etc,— who are done with mixed signals and want direct, clarity-first support.

  • Yes. We’ll improve your profile and your filtering process so you stop wasting time.

  • No — coaching is virtual. Clients work with me from anywhere.

  • That’s on the roadmap. For now, I’m coaching-first so the work stays high-quality and sustainable.

Apply to work together

I keep a small client roster so the work stays focused and high-impact. If you’re ready for clarity (and you’re done babysitting ambiguity), apply below.

ABOUT ME

Why I do this work

I’ve spent years watching capable, generous people over-function in relationships — waiting for clarity, explaining away mixed signals, and staying far longer than the situation deserved.

Most dating advice tells people to either:

  • “just be patient,” or

  • “cut everyone off immediately.”

Neither actually helps.

What does help is learning how to:

  • read early data honestly

  • trust your internal signals

  • stop dating potential and make decisions without becoming guarded, cynical, or cold

That’s the work we do here.

My approach

My coaching style is warm, direct, and clarity-focused.

I don’t believe in:

  • decoding mixed signals

  • chasing chemistry

  • waiting for someone to become available

  • or processing the same situation for months without movement

I do believe in:

  • clear standards

  • mutual effort

  • forward motion and choosing relationships that feel grounded instead of confusing

My guiding principle is simple:

If it’s not a fuck yes, it’s a no.

Not because dating should be harsh — but because clarity is kinder than limbo.

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Terms & Conditions
No-Nonsense Dating Coach for Professionals

Effective Date:1/26/2026
Business Name: No-Nonsense Dating Coach for Professionals
Contact Email: hello@nononsensedatingcoach.com

1. Scope of Services

No-Nonsense Dating Coach for Professionals provides dating coaching services focused on:

  • decision-making

  • communication strategies

  • boundary-setting

  • relationship clarity

  • dating strategy and support

Services are non-clinical and non-therapeutic in nature.

2. Not Therapy / No Mental Health Treatment

Dating coaching services provided are not psychotherapy, mental health counseling, diagnosis, treatment, or crisis intervention.

These services do not replace mental health care, medical care, or licensed therapy services.

Clients acknowledge that:

  • coaching is not a substitute for therapy

  • no mental health diagnosis or treatment is provided

  • no therapeutic relationship is established

3. Client Eligibility

Clients must be:

  • 18 years of age or older

  • legally able to consent to services

  • not currently receiving psychotherapy services from the coach

Current or former therapy clients of the coach are not eligible for dating coaching services.

4. Coaching Relationship

The coaching relationship is:

  • collaborative

  • educational

  • strategic

  • action-oriented

The coach provides guidance, perspective, and feedback.
The client retains full responsibility for their decisions, actions, and outcomes.

5. Coaching Style & Expectations

The coaching style is direct, clarity-focused, and accountability-based.

Clients acknowledge that:

  • feedback may be direct and challenging

  • the coach will not validate prolonged confusion, mixed signals, or indecision when evidence does not support it

  • coaching is not passive support

This practice emphasizes clarity, boundaries, and personal responsibility.

6. No Guarantees

No outcomes are guaranteed, including but not limited to:

  • relationship success

  • finding a partner

  • relationship longevity

  • emotional outcomes

Dating coaching provides tools, perspective, and strategy — not results guarantees.

7. Confidentiality

All client information is treated as private and confidential.

However, coaching confidentiality is not protected healthcare confidentiality and is not subject to HIPAA regulations.

Information may be disclosed if required by law.

8. Communication Boundaries

Between-session communication:

  • is limited to agreed-upon channels

  • occurs during defined business hours

  • is not 24/7 support

  • is not crisis support

Emergency services should be contacted in urgent situations.

9. Scheduling & Cancellations

Sessions must be canceled or rescheduled at least 24 hours in advance.

Late cancellations or no-shows may be charged the full session fee.

10. Payments & Refunds

  • Payment is required in advance for all services

  • Packages are non-refundable once services begin

  • Missed sessions are not refundable

  • Payment plans must be honored according to the agreed schedule

11. Termination of Services

Either party may terminate services at any time.

The coach reserves the right to terminate services if:

  • boundaries are violated

  • services are misused

  • the relationship becomes inappropriate

  • coaching goals are no longer aligned

12. Liability Limitation

Clients agree that:

  • the coach is not liable for client decisions or outcomes

  • dating choices and interactions are the client’s responsibility

  • the coach is not responsible for third-party actions

Clients assume full responsibility for personal decisions, safety, and interactions.

13. Non-Clinical Nature of Services

Client acknowledges that services are:

  • coaching-based

  • educational

  • strategic

  • non-medical

  • non-therapeutic

No healthcare services are provided.

14. Media & Testimonials

Client consent is required before any testimonials, quotes, or feedback are shared publicly.
All testimonials will be anonymized unless written permission is given.

15. Governing Law

This agreement shall be governed by the laws of the United States and applicable state laws where the business is registered.

16. Agreement to Terms

By engaging in services, submitting payment, or participating in coaching, the client acknowledges that they have read, understood, and agreed to these Terms & Conditions.

Safety Clause

You may add this section if you want extra protection:

Personal Safety

Clients are responsible for their own physical and emotional safety in all dating interactions.
The coach does not vet, background-check, or verify third parties.

Clients agree to use personal judgment and appropriate safety measures when meeting individuals.

Virtual Services Clause

Virtual Services

All services may be delivered virtually.
Clients are responsible for having appropriate technology and internet access.