ABOUT ME

Why I do this work

I’ve spent years watching capable, generous people over-function in relationships — waiting for clarity, explaining away mixed signals, and staying far longer than the situation deserved.

Most dating advice tells people to either:

• “just be patient,” or

• “cut everyone off immediately.”

Neither actually helps.

What does help is learning how to:

• read early data honestly

• trust your internal signals

• stop dating potential and make decisions without becoming guarded, cynical, or cold

That’s the work we do here.

My approach

My coaching style is warm, direct, and clarity-focused.

I don’t believe in:

• decoding mixed signals

• chasing chemistry

• waiting for someone to become available

• or processing the same situation for months without movement

I do believe in:

• clear standards

• mutual effort

• forward motion and choosing relationships that feel grounded instead of confusing

My guiding principle is simple:

If it’s not a fuck yes, it’s a no.

Not because dating should be harsh — but because clarity is kinder than limbo.